Just Imagine....

Imagine arriving to a class on advanced web design. You have no previous knowledge. No computer to use. No creative impulses like the others around you. Dramatic splashes of colour, crazy fonts, moving images. You've got two hours to put together something that will be up to par with everyone around you. Are you ready?! Go!

Impossible? Perhaps. Creating something as demanding as this without all the tools would be very
difficult. But pastoral care is not like that. You may say,
pastoral care, what in the world is that?

Well, have you ever visited a sick friend? Have you ever listened to someone hurting from the loss of a loved one? Has anyone ever asked you for advice on raising a child? Have you ever just called someone to check and see how they are doing? Can you recall a time when
you received an email that seemed to be calling out for more than just a simple reply?

Still reading? Great! That means that you live in the real world, and you value relationships.

My hope is that this new blog will be "A New Place to Gather" and really listen to what we each have to share. To take time to respond. Then make a connection. Often we are called to connect by sharing our own experiences.

I hope you will join me as we connect on topics of interest. By responding to others with questions because connecting is making that link. The possibilities are endless!


Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Caring For The Aging


Taking Care of Our Parents
This past summer I lost my last living Grandparent. It was a reminder that we just do not live forever. We build memories, relationships, and bonds with family as we grow and change. Some are great and will forever be a part of us. While others we would just soon forget than to ever repeat them again. Upon reflecting on this, I look too now at my own parents, my Mother-In-Law and begin to wonder when they too may need more support.
With today’s continuing medical advances, people are living much longer than even fifteen years ago. While technology may be able to prolong our lives, the reality is at some point, we will all need assistance. For the most part, we turn to our family for that support. Now that we are living longer, healthier lives however, that responsibility is largely left up to the adult children who are often in the midst of raising their own children. This phenomenon has become so common that it was aptly named the “Sandwich Generation”, referring to these adult children who feel squeezed between the needs of their aging parents or relatives and the needs of their own families and careers.
What support will that be? Where would I find it if I needed to? I hope to find some helpful links for all of us approaching those years of caring for those we love and have them available here. 

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